Complaining without trying.

Do not complain if you're not going to do anything about it. When you've done all you could and actually tried your hardest to change the way things are so that they are more in your favor and you still don't get it, then you can complain. But when all you do is sit on your ass and bitch and whine, that's when people stop listening to you and stop trying to help. So don't go complaining to someone when you haven't even tried and expect them to do something about it. These are your problems and you have to learn how to stand on your own two feet. No matter what family or background you are born into, nothing in this world is simply handed to you on a silver platter. So grow up and learn because there are a lot of things in life that  you are going to have to do on your own.